Four Weeks

I got married two months ago, it feels like forever and not long all at the same time. It's funny i always subconsciously made fun of girls like me. meet the guy. get engaged two months later. get married. okay.. maybe not two months i knew him for 6 months before we were engaged, but still. I always said, "Self, you will know and date the guy for AT LEAST a YEAR before you EVER even consider marrying him." but then my hubby walked into my life and all the walls and things that i thought were important crumbled. and i realized that i didn't need to wait or "get to know him". i just knew. He knew before i did, that's for certain.. but anyway.

HOW TO PLAN A WEDDING IN 4 WEEKS.. or i guess maybe why did it that way??

first, i got engaged April 30th. so on Monday morning, the 5th of May, my momma and i were chatting about when my " big date" should be.. i said October, it would be cool again by then and i would have 5 beautiful months of planning. my heart on the other hand wanted to marry the boy as of yesterday and i believe my mom knew that. so we argued and came up with May 30th or October 11.. i left the room and the decision was made. i was getting married in 4 weeks. i called Tiger, he flipped at first cried a bit ,(i never said that) but then decided that we could make it work.

wedding planning in a nutshell? it was hell. i'm not even gonna lie. i hated myself for deciding to get married that quick. i was constantly making phonecalls, did some crying, coordinating things with people, more crying and i had to look pretty for engagment pictures, basically weeping, get addresses, get those sent, uncontrollable sobbing, get addresses for a shower, get those sent, straight dying, and on top of it all i had to choose colors, find a dress, call girls to be bridesmaids.. dead. WEDDING PLANNING SUCKED. at first. but by the end of the second week, things began to fall into place and i knew, just like how i knew i wanted to be with Husband forever, that this was how i was supposed to do things.  My dress was the 3rd dress i tried on. My colors just worked together so beautifully and we found things to "go" so easily as decor, it all worked. #stupideasy

i just think this is funny :]

The moral of the story?

you can plan a big, beautiful wedding in 4 weeks. (that is if you have as many hook ups as i do and an amazing mother. jk. you can do it.)

xo

M